Quick Answer
SDC hosts 100+ lifestyle events yearly including hotel takeovers ($200-500), cruises ($2k-5k), and free meet-and-greets. Join with code 24319 to access the full events calendar and exclusive member pricing.
What Are SDC Events?
SDC (Swingers Date Club) organizes and promotes lifestyle events worldwide where members can meet, socialize, party, and play in safe, vetted, judgment-free environments.
These aren’t your average parties – SDC events are professionally organized, held at upscale venues, and attended by verified members who understand lifestyle etiquette and boundaries.
With over 100 events per year across North America, Europe, and beyond, there’s always something happening near you or worth traveling for.
Types of SDC Events
Hotel Takeovers (Most Popular)
SDC books entire hotels or large blocks of rooms for weekend-long lifestyle parties. These are the bread and butter of the SDC event calendar.
What to expect:
- Themed playrooms – Multiple rooms set up for different preferences (soft swap, full swap, BDSM, etc.)
- DJ & dancing – Professional DJ spinning all night
- Hot tubs & pools – Clothing-optional aquatic fun
- Meet & greet mixers – Icebreaker games to meet other couples
- Themed dress code – Lingerie night, masquerade, schoolgirl/boy, etc.
- Food & drinks – Usually catered appetizers; cash bar
- After-parties – Continues in private suites until sunrise
Pricing: $200-500 per couple for weekend pass
Duration: Friday-Sunday (3 days/2 nights)
Attendance: 50-300 couples typical
Popular locations: Las Vegas, Miami, New Orleans, Phoenix, Denver
Lifestyle Cruises (Ultimate Experience)
Week-long cruises to tropical destinations with 500+ swingers on a private charter ship. This is the pinnacle of lifestyle travel.
What’s included:
- All meals & drinks (all-inclusive)
- Nightly themed parties & events
- Private island excursions
- Onboard playrooms & dungeon
- Pool deck foam parties
- Professional entertainment
- Spa, gym, casino access
Pricing: $2,000-$5,000 per couple (all-inclusive)
Duration: 7 days / 6 nights
Destinations: Caribbean, Mexico, Mediterranean
Popular cruises: Desire Cruises, Bliss Cruise, Temptation Cruise
Pro tip: Book 6-12 months in advance – these sell out FAST!
Meet & Greets (Best for Beginners)
Casual social gatherings at bars, restaurants, or private venues. No play expected – just networking and making friends.
What happens:
- Introductions & icebreakers
- Casual conversation over drinks
- Exchange contact info with couples you click with
- Learn about the lifestyle from experienced members
- No pressure to participate in anything sexual
Pricing: Free to $50 per couple
Duration: 2-4 hours (usually happy hour)
Dress code: Casual or business casual
Perfect for: Complete beginners, couples new to the area, anyone wanting low-pressure socializing
House Parties (Intimate & Exclusive)
Private homes host smaller, more intimate parties for 20-50 couples. Usually invitation-only or require approval.
What to expect:
- Smaller, more intimate atmosphere
- Multiple playrooms set up in bedrooms
- Hot tub & pool (if available)
- BYOB (bring your own bottle)
- Potluck appetizers
- Stricter guest approval process
Pricing: $50-150 per couple (donation to host)
Dress code: Varies – often lingerie or themed
Resort Takeovers
Similar to hotel takeovers but at all-inclusive resorts, usually in tropical destinations like Cancun, Jamaica, or Dominican Republic.
What’s included:
- All meals, drinks, & entertainment
- Private beach access
- Nightly theme parties
- Playrooms & lifestyle activities
- Resort amenities (spa, gym, etc.)
Pricing: $1,500-$3,000 per couple for 4-7 days
Popular resorts: Desire Pearl, Desire Riviera Maya, Hidden Beach
How to Find SDC Events
Finding events on SDC is simple:
- Log in to SDC.com (or open the mobile app)
- Click “Events” tab in the main menu
- Filter by location – Your city, state, or region
- Filter by date – This weekend, next month, etc.
- Filter by type – Hotel takeover, meet-and-greet, cruise, etc.
- Read event details – Description, pricing, dress code, rules
- Purchase tickets – Secure checkout through SDC
- RSVP & connect – See who else is attending, send messages
Don’t have SDC membership yet? Join with promo code 24319 for free trial access to the full events calendar!
Tips for First-Time Event Attendees
Before the Event
- ✅ Read the event description carefully – Note dress code, rules, what’s included
- ✅ Connect with other attendees – Message couples who RSVP’d to break the ice
- ✅ Pack appropriately – Themed outfits, lingerie, comfortable shoes
- ✅ Set boundaries with your partner – Discuss limits before arriving
- ✅ Book accommodation early – Hotels fill up fast for popular events
At the Event
- ✅ Arrive early – Easier to socialize before it gets crowded
- ✅ Introduce yourselves – Don’t be shy – everyone is friendly
- ✅ Respect dress codes – Don’t show up in jeans if it’s a lingerie party
- ✅ Don’t feel obligated to play – It’s 100% okay to just socialize
- ✅ Follow lifestyle etiquette – Ask permission, respect “no,” be discreet
- ✅ Stay sober enough to consent – Have fun, but stay in control
After the Event
- ✅ Follow up with couples you connected with – Send friendly messages
- ✅ Debrief with your partner – Discuss what you liked/didn’t like
- ✅ Leave a review – Help other couples know what to expect
Top SDC Event Destinations 2026
Las Vegas, Nevada
Events per year: 12+
Why go: Monthly hotel takeovers, excellent lifestyle clubs, 24/7 party atmosphere
Best time: Year-round (avoid summer heat)
Miami/Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Events per year: 10+
Why go: Beach parties, yacht events, tropical vibes
Best time: November-April
Cancun/Riviera Maya, Mexico
Events per year: 8+
Why go: All-inclusive resort takeovers, beautiful beaches, warm weather
Best time: October-May
New Orleans, Louisiana
Events per year: 6+
Why go: Incredible food, vibrant nightlife, Mardi Gras events
Best time: February-May, October-December
Phoenix/Scottsdale, Arizona
Events per year: 6+
Why go: Desert resorts, golf, spa retreats
Best time: October-April
Event Costs: What to Budget
| Event Type | Cost Per Couple | Duration |
|---|---|---|
| Meet & Greet | $0-50 | 2-4 hours |
| House Party | $50-150 | Evening |
| Hotel Takeover | $200-500 | Weekend |
| Resort Takeover | $1,500-3,000 | 4-7 days |
| Lifestyle Cruise | $2,000-5,000 | 7 days |
Note: Prices don’t include travel, accommodation (for hotel takeovers), or drinks.
Upcoming Events 2026 (Preview)
While specific dates change, here are some annual events to watch for:
- January: Desire Riviera Maya Resort Week
- February: Naughty in N’awlins (New Orleans)
- March: Phoenix Takeover Weekend
- April: Spring Break Cancun Takeover
- May: Memorial Day Vegas Blowout
- July: Caribbean Lifestyle Cruise
- October: Halloween Hotel Takeover (Multiple cities)
- November: Thanksgiving Getaway (Cabo)
- December: New Year’s Eve Mega Party (Vegas/Miami)
Join SDC with code 24319 to see the full 2026 events calendar!
Final Thoughts
SDC events are hands-down the best way to meet like-minded couples in person and experience the lifestyle in a safe, fun environment.
Start with a low-pressure meet-and-greet to get your feet wet, then work your way up to hotel takeovers and eventually a lifestyle cruise.
Remember: You’re never obligated to play at any event. Attend, socialize, make friends, and participate only at your own comfort level.
Ready to explore lifestyle events? Get SDC access with code 24319 →
Related: SDC Review | Swinging for Beginners
Written by Jordan Blake | Last updated: January 2026